Top 4 Reasons why most guys can't score dates with Carrots
Reason #1: Boring Opening Online Chat Lines. When initiating a chat with me online, more than 90% of guys started off with "Hi", "Hello", "Morning", "Good Morning"....followed by long silences in anticipation that I will respond. I see that in CD group chats as well. The entire chat history for the day could be filled with the previous mentioned words. Most of the time, I'll reply only if I'm bored. I'll recommend guys say something more interesting. For example: "Hi! Love your profile description! Hope you are comfortable to have a chat!"
Reason #2: Boring Online Chat Follow up. I'll usually provide a boring response to a boring online chat opening line. Tit for tat. The reason is because there is no benefit for me to respond enthusiastically.....unless I'm chatting with a drop dead gorgeous girl or gurl. After my response, more than 50% of guys will follow up with an equally boring follow up line! For example: "How are you?".....followed by a long pause hoping that I will respond. In fact, some guys will even repeat their initial boring opening line: "Hi", "Hello", "Morning", "Good Morning"....which led me to wonder if they are bots. If I have spare time, I rather chat with guys who are more interesting than boring guys. That is why after 2 boring messages from guys, I will stop replying.
Reason #3: Asking for Stats or Intro. Some guys start off the online chat conversation by stating their race/age/height/weight.....followed by a long pause in hope that I'll reply. Some will follow up with a question: "Intro?", "Can Intro?". I will definitely ignore such chats. We are not in the army where we need to provide rank and name to our reporting sergeant. Guys need to understand that chatting with gurls requires different approach compared to chatting with bros. Imagine a guy approaching a woman at a bar, gaze into her eyes and say "Chinese, 40 years old. Can intro?", what do you think will be the outcome? To gain positive attention from gurls, you will need to speak to them like how you speak to normal girls. Treat them with respect....unless they have already openly declared that they are depraved sluts craving for degradation. Don't treat them like a piece of meat on the shelf where you are trying to find out the colour, expiry date and dimensions.
Reason #4: Lack of Persistence. Many guys that message me lack persistence. Those who know me well will be aware that I don't meet up with men easily. Reason is because I'm straight. I don't have much motivation to meet up with any men unless they are able to satisfy a specific fetish that I have. I believe I've only met up with 4 men in Carrots mode. 2 of them claim to be crossdressers and met up with me in guy mode. After a few rejections, 99% of the men that contacted me online gave up completely. If they persisted and tried to understand what fetish I truly desire and expressed their desire to fulfil them, they may be able to score a date with me.
To be continued......


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